For example, I have a tag table in mongo, and the data model is as follows

    {
        name: String,
        hot: {
            type: Number,
            default: 0
        },
        create_at: {
            type: Date,
            default: Date.now
        }
    }

Now I have an array of tag names, such as ['mongoDB','node.js','mysql'],
I want to update the popularity in batches, and if it is found that there is no such tag, insert it, implement something like

mongo.tags.update({
    name:{
        $in:['mongoDB','node.js','mysql']
        }
},{
    $inc:{
        hot:1
    }
},{
    upsert: true,
    multi:true
})

Such an operation, but now when I execute this command, an empty data is added

The way I implement it now is to do a query first, Updates that can be queried can be queried, and insertion operations cannot be performed. However, such an operation requires traversing the tag array multiple times from the code, and the performance is not good. I would like to ask if any experts have a better solution.