where not in 

tp3.2.3 

M('table')->where(['id'=>id])->where(['field'=>['not in',$where]])->delete();

tp5.0 

Db::name('table')->where('id',$id)->where('field','not in',$where)->delete();

Db::name('table')->where('id',$id)->whereNotIn('field',$where)->delete();

tp5.1

Db::name('table')->where('id',$id)->where('field','not in',$where)->delete();

Db::name('table')->where('id',$id)->whereNotIn('field',$where)->delete();